Betrayal.....

Betrayal - act of untrustworthiness. From birth till death, almost every human being has been betrayed in various ways. It either can be done for money or other benefits. We can see this act in business, politics, education, sports and even in personal life. It will take years to build up the trust, whereas one act of distrust will take a second to spoil every thing. We must always look onto the point in two angles (in fact, as many angles as possible). The person who got betrayed will not necessarily be a nerd to get deceived always. At the same time, the perpetrator who has got a solid reason to do this, would be for the sake of money and fame which he cannot possess by his individuality. Apart from money and other luxuries they attain as a physical enjoyment, they lack mental comfort or happiness. The victim would be suffering psychological trauma, which nobody would even mind to think of. But when it happens to them, they will curse the rest of the world for their loss. Leave all the external part, how would one feel if he/she comes to know that they have got betrayed in any means. That moment would be like a thorn always pricks his/her heart forever. Even worse if they had been betrayed by their loved one's. People don't really understand how it pains, when they make others cry, unless they suffer. I am also a victim for this and I've been betrayed many times till today, even by my close buddies. I am not an exception. I feel sorry for my ignorance and I knew the pain of betrayal. After one such event, I can't even ready to forgive and digest what I've undergone. This happened to me in the recent past in Oxford itself. When you are not ready to keep up the promise, don't pretend to be a loyal friend. If you don't really mean, then don't give promise. I've a bad habit of believe every one as my good friend. Its very hard to judge one person even after you have been with them for long time. You cannot find out their true colour. People think they are smart and clever enough to dump other. They cannot think of the consequences, which other faces because of their cheap activities. It will be the worst pain when your body and heart being active, while your mind deprived of oxygen to think of anything else. You can tolerate only for some time, every body will have their own level of tolerance and patience. You cannot except how bad one would react when they came to know the fact. In fact, I'll go crazy when I came to know that I've been fooled around. People who have done this to me are still in my vicinity, gave me a mental pain, making problems with other friends. I really don't know what they have gained by doing it so. At last, they have been thrown away from my house because of their cheap behaviour and I consider them as a third rated morons or thrash can who I can't even imagine to suit my state of dignity. I felt ashamed for being with them long back. They were fabricating stories and spreading wrong words, which I don't care. Later I felt its a waste of time to think about those issues and sort of people. Finally, its up to each individual to think about their duty and keep up their promise as being loyal and trust worthy friend to every one!